Tuesday, June 30, 2009

INDIFFERENT OR TOO BUSY??

I write this piece at the risk of being called a nag. But what to do? It is over a month since the last event took place i.e, the 85' batch lunch. After that there has been nothing; not a blip on the radar. One wonders why? The Blog was launched on 21 Mar 09 and it did generate a lot of enthusiasm, but apparently it was rather temporary & localised. I have called up many of our esteemed alumni (no names, but they would know!!!) and told them about this effort. It is really surprising that although in our conversation it drew a positive response but most did not bother to even open the blog. May be in this era of Convent Education it requires a lot of courage to associate with modest past studying in a Govt. School. There has been some lip service too, without much result on ground. It is perplexing, frustrating and disappointing to find such an indifferent attitude to something which could have helped us all bond as alumni of an establishment that has been a cornerstone of our life.
We all are busy. We all are in the middle of daily grind of our respective careers. Some may be more busy than others but how much time does it take to post a comment ? Not more than reading a mail. What one expected was at least a positive response. This blog was started by someone who was sitting at an altitude of over 12000 ft in extreme weather conditions and less oxygen, with no electricity and a very very slow net connectivity. Still one has been able to make a beginning with whatever resources that were available. Numerous telephone calls, searching people through Google, BSNL telephone directories, even Electoral Rolls, making hit and trial calls to likely alumni, requesting friends for their class group photographs and contact informations of others so that they could be told about the blog, visits to school to click pictures so that friends who have not visited school in a long time could get a glimpse of their Alma Mater etc, etc, etc. All this required some effort and enthusiasm. But the same is petering out now. It is not that nobody has gained from the blog. People have reconnected and are reliving their school days. I have got messages and mails from my own batchmates and one keeps reading about similar efforts by some others to get in touch but it is much much below the expectations. I am carrying out my share of thinking and leave it upon all of you to do your share of thinking and introspection. This has to be a collective effort and we have to inspire each other. Agreed, we have all moved on in our lives, found new friends and groups, relocated to newer and may be greener pastures but forgetting the school that taught us our first step is like forgetting the mother who teaches the child how to walk. But then, this emotional perspective seems to be shared by only a few.
The blog needs new ideas and one brain can not generate innovative ideas to make the blog more interesting and interactive. Hopefully, together we will rejuvinate the blog.

4 comments:

  1. Dear Atul

    I think many people are not aware of this site. As soon as they will know about this people will start joining. Its the duty of everyone to tell the people they know.

    Thanks and Keep up the good work.

    Pankaj Juneja / '88 batch / pankajjuneja@hotmail.com

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  2. Well Atukm I agree and disagree with you, keeping in mind that you are the lone crusader, it may seem a herculean taskm but kudos to you your efforts will bear fruits. I guess not many people are aware of this site or ur eneterprise, I found out about the site 3 weeks ago and has been visiting everyday bt as you mentioned it seems static, the buzz is missing , unless we all put our weight behind ur efforts there is risk of this fizzling out. So dont loose hope, Keep up the good work.

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  3. Dear Atul,

    Well, your post of 30th June " Are we indifferent or too busy" has touched my heart and soul.When i first visited the blog, it was too inspiring. For the first one month, i was viewing it almost every day. Since then, i agree the frequency has decreased to twice in a week. Its not a matter of fact that people are indifferent.People recognise your maiden effort and love you for volunteering it.

    Pankaj and Channi has partially attributed it to lack of knowledge and publicity of this blog. It may be true,but, the truth lies in the habit of reading but not posting any comment. same was true for me as well beofore i read your last post. But,i promise i shall be posting my comments regularly. You may try doing the flg if it could be done:

    1.Collecting of informtion on Birthdays, Annivs and later automatic posting on respective days thro' your blog to them.

    2.An infomation of new comment or the posting itself could go to the email ids available in our data bank of Alumni's.


    Dont be perturbed Atul. You are doing a wonderful job. We all support you in this initiative. The world is small, shall meet soon. Still remember the Red Chilly pickles you used to bring in your lunch box. Wow!

    Pardeep Aggarwal
    your own class mate ( 84 batch)

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  4. Hi Atul,
    Don't despair. You have taken an initiative and are doing a marvellous job. I personally have re connected with about 10 of my batchmates and its all due to your efforts . I'm sure sooner or later , people gonna realise it and will come forward to find and catch up with their lost buddies. If not, the loss is theirs and they not worth to be called as our school mates.
    I am proud to be associated with 35 Model and those who cherish the memories of the wonderful years spent together will join me in thanking you for your efforts to bring us together.
    Wake up all you 35 modelites and come lets meet up and re live those memories.
    Send in your acceptance and lets all meet under the same roof once again . Looking forward to a good response from all of you.

    Bye,
    Amita Prakash (83 batch )

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